Joni Mitchell sang, “We don’t need no piece of paper from the city hall / keeping us tried and true,” and in a way, it’s true for all gay and lesbian couples, like Finn and Charlie. The real marriage is in the relationship, and the acknowledgement of family and friends that you are indeed a committed couple. But at the same time, that piece of paper comes with numerous tangible benefits. To me though, it’s not even about the benefits; it’s about some kind of official recognition. I’ve gone a long time without it, and many others have gone even longer.

And now that you’ve read my spiel, please go and sign this petition at the HRC website. Thank you.